Bob in previous posts you have said your wife will let you come home.
The problem has not been your wifes unwillingness to continue the marriage. The problem has been your unwillingness to move home without her apology.
Riley this is different than other people on the boards. Based on everything Bob has posted he can go home anytime he wants. His exile is self imposed. He wants his wife to apologize and do things his way. If she doesn't (according to Bob) he is willing to divorce her.
This is destructive. This is manipulative. Bob says he sees divorce as a way to stop her from yelling. He does not see divorce as the end their relationship. This is evident in the settlement agreement. He is giving her everything.
Why? Because he fully expects to reconcile once the yelling stops. Bob doesn't understand divorce is final.
Bob--divorce is final. It is not a "solution to a problem." It is death to a relationship.
You do not use divorce as a technique to stop fighting. It is not an avenue to get what you want.
Again: Bob your wife is not coming back. She is not going to call you. Your plan is not working.
If you divorce her--You will be divorced. You will lose everything: Your home, your dog and your wife.
