I am not in your shoes. However, you are looking for an *answer* that doesn't exist. No one knows whether your W will consider rebuilding a R with you. In my very humble opinion, I don't think contrasting the divorce shows you love her.
She knows you love her and that you don't want a D. Dragging something out that will empty your wallet may not be he best move. Please know that anything is possible. People decide to work on their Rs after saying they were done. People say "I love you" and BD later that day. The outcome is unknown.
You would do yourself a favor by working on yourself and shifting the focus from her. I know it's difficult. Take care of yourself.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
