I too was in a SSM (there was always a kid climbing in the bed:-). Nothing wrong with being intimate with your h provided you have no expectations. My xh also said he had to have feelings for someone when intimate with them. We had lots of S before he moved out and again, I didn't think that would change anything so that was fine.
I understand the weird feelings of transferring bills to others name, etc. Just know that this is the time to focus on you and you wil be fine. Difficult I know.
Hang in there!
Last edited by Georgiabelle; 09/10/1412:57 PM.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
