So I assume it is normal to feel so lost at this point? I am still doing it all. Everything I have learned here, read, etc.. II waited until this morning to tell her I was off today. Going to meet banker, realtor, etc. She asks how many homes I am seeing...wishes me well. Her actions do NOT match her words. She shares with me this am that she has a very hard conference call this AM and she has been losing sleep over it. I told her some affirmation stuff and let her know I am always here if she wants to talk. I then grabbed her hand, looked her in the eye and said have a good day, you will be fine. Working on being vague, very few details, yet enough to not make her think I do not want conversation. Still hurting. I want my WAW to snap out of this all, before I move. I make no efforts to talk about us or R. I focus on kids and day to day. I gave up on 5 love languages long ago, as hers is gifts and words of affirmation with a little acts of service. I affirm her motherhood and her kindness, maybe once a week. Guess there is nothing more to do, other than to be patient. Running the hills of this marathon and realizing it is a tri-athalon, swimming is next and hope not to drown.
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
