So is your wife currently having an A ?? If it has ended that is a positive . The things shes done to you and you family is despicable for sure but I guess we must remember PEA s . The brain chemicals , the irrational thoughts and decisions that come along with having an affair . Having a man into your home is the lowest of the lowest however it does speak volumes about the irrational thoughts and decisions she has and is making . Im not making an excuse for her but it does give you some insight on how a once loving wife could turn so cold and un feeling . And remember that is exactly what it is " feelings " not logic . If she was thinking logical none of this would ever have happened Dawgy


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )