Quote: ...see what you two can work out and I'll support any decision you two make. I want what S wants and what will work out best for you two. H said Hmmmm.
Of course he said.Hmmm..because its not being forced upon him..You handled that perfectly, not too hard is it?...
Quote: H wanted to go out with friends that night then leave for Florida on sunday. I just agreed and said whatever he wants is cool with me. He said ok, I'll let you know.
Again, another example where agreeing on things like that always makes sense, you MADE HIM FEEL better..he gets his night out you get 10 days as a family, not a bad trade off..
Quote: H's face was full of surprise. Mostly that I did not push an R talk and that I was not pushing working on the M.
Good girl Cindy, just keep up that attitude and you'll increase your chances of drawing him back. Take it from a newly D'd me..If I could take back every time I pushed my W on the M , and supplanted it with how I'm handling things now, I would not be Dd, I'd bet my Cubs hat on it..LOL..
Every time you push M talk on a WA, you are one step closer to D court, just remember that..
Keep doing what works even when there are disturbing lulls in the action..
Make yourself a margarita tonight, you did a good job..
