U_turn buddy . I m gonna say something that you may feel offensive but I hope not . JUST RELAX . If she is still in your bed and still wanting to touch you physically in anyway , then use it to your advantage . The best chance for survival of your marriage is to keep her in your home . Separating can help and also can do more damage . Understand that separation is either going to be one way or the other 50 / 50 chance . That is a big gamble .If you truly still want your marriage then keep staying positive , do you work in the backround , love from a distance , be the lighthouse .Letting her hold your hand and hugging her when she wants is being the lighthouse .
Something else that has been helping me is putting myself in my wifes shoes . If i was the WAS , how would i want her to behave in order to keep my marriage . Your friend Dawgy
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
