No less than five or six times you put off painful -- and necessary -- boundaries with your wife, deferring them to your upcoming MC session. Now that none of that was addressed . . . what is your plan?
Starsky
Yes, I was thinking about that last night as I lay in bed. I'm going to have to re-address the no contact letter and full transparency. I don't feel that she can 100% commit to R while still in contact (however limited it may be) with OM. MC did seem to agree with my side on that, but didn't go into specifics to put in place.
I can't go another 2 weeks until we meet with MC together again to address.
