Friday I have plans so not seeing her will be easy. Saturday will be more difficult. I was thinking about planning something with the kids that they want to do (movie, mini golf, etc.) and then telling her what we are doing. It is on this point where I am confused...do I say "Hey, I am taking the kids to mini golf and to get ice cream on Saturday, you can join us if you want, I am sure the kids would like that" or "hey, I am taking the kids to mini golf and to get ice cream on Saturday, what were you planning to do?"
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed