Thanks Cadet, I'm working hard to stay positive and reconnect with friends and try some new acitivities.
One thing I've noticed though is the more excited or positive I am the more sad she seems. In moments like that she's asked me a couple of times how I'm doing. I know she means in the bigger sense but I've just said something like "I'm doing well, I really enjoyed martial arts class today". I'm not sure if I should ask her how she's doing, because I'm worried about where the conversation will go. If she asks first though should I go there?
This would be "mind reading", don't look into this stuff at all brother.
Time is money - you can spend time replying to her text or you can go do martial arts or whatever you have going on. What is the best use of your money and your time?
"Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay." ~ Will Smith
