one thing I made sure of is that since my W and I are alternating weeks, I let her handle ALL of the kids stuff during her week. Right now it is easy for her because she does not have a job. Pretty soon she will have to get one. Then she will find out just how hard it is, as well as how she no longer has time to do all the fun stuff she is used to doing.
Let reality be a lesson...
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16