Let's face it, finding happiness is a never ending endeavor. If your H is out looking for that and can't be married to you while doing it... well, that's a pretty bleak outlook from where I'm standing BUT hopefully some of his introspection leads him to realize that happiness takes WORK every single day. It takes courage and strength. It doesn't just appear because you walked away from your family. That realization happens slowly and sometimes it happens and the blame is placed on the LBS (you). Brace yourself for that possibility.
