Well my son and I had a discussion before we left to meet h for soccer game. Son wants to live with h. My son is 11.
I did not mention to h at the soccer game...was hoping it would blow over. But sons were upset that h did not come to dinner last night after soccer game. They miss him.
Anyway at restaurant son was mad, wanted me to call his dad about him coming to live there. So I left h a voicemail as to what son wanted.
Well h mentioned that he and his friend were going out last night...that is why he didn't want to come to dinner with us ! So h did not return my call regarding son.
What should I do about this? Should I call h at work ask if he got my message regarding son or wait until h gets home from work tonight?
Or maybe have son call him?
I'm getting the feeling that h will avoid this since having son live with him will cramp his single life style...but this is an assumption.
This request will definitely test h's commitment to the boys and i though...so he may be running scared. I didn't know what else to do...son wanted h to know so I called and left message. Said that I wanted h to think about it and we would discuss soon.
