I am dying inside. I am doing all I can at this point as far as the LRT. There are things she cannot reach in the kitchen or in the home so she calls my name and asks if I can get it for her. She asked me if I can fix things for her that she sees are not working. I nicely oblige. When she got home from therapy last night I told her that I had plans to go out with a friend. I was almost dressed. Before I left I finished getting dressed up a little bit of cologne nice hair nice pants and a nice shirt. First thing this morning she asked how was it last night. My answer to her was it was fun. So now Mr. Bond, she is not only asking questions but also asking for my help with things. I know the chatting this is because of guilt but asking me to help her with things seems like she wants some closeness? I'm still although now divorced and living in the same house and still in the same bed being very patient, quiet, friendly, and all while still doing my one 80s. I am reaching out again just to try and understand a little more. She does want to help me with anything however she wants me to ask as she doesn't want to be pushy. I have noticed that if I do ask for help on anything related to my real estate situation, she is almost chomping at the bit to help. I get questions like did you hear from the realtor yet. I also get questions like did you get an answer do you know a number. I stop calling her on the way home months ago. So today on the way home from work although I had plans tonight I asked her to send me a scan of some paperwork. I figured she would wait a while. However, I got the paperwork within five minutes and her asking if the scan was good or should she do it again. I just said looks fine thank you. That was the last time we spoke this evening and by the time I get home she will be asleep.
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
