Trying to stay patient- part 5

[Train]

Count a "third" in for me.

Not only do you ONLY act like a neighbor, you also CONTINUE to act strong, confident, decisive, convicted, assured.

I soooo wish, as a woman, I could spend one day in the brain of a man. And that y'all could spend a day in the brain of a woman.

If you were to spend a day in the brain of a woman who is attracted to men, you'd see we are attracted to men who are (first and FOREMOST) confident, competent and strong. That is very possibly the VERY FIRST thing we see. (I could go on a tangent here about the psychology of many women's "bad boy complex," but I'll spare you. I WILL say I think it has something to do with women finding a strong, confident man practically irresistible. But I digress ...)

Now that you seem to have somewhat re-attracted W to your M, it's time to focus HARD on re-attracting her to the man she fell in love with.

Remember: even if you pursued her when y'all were dating, she was already smitten. Your role NOW is different: it's starting from scratch. In other words, you have to help influence her to be SMITTEN.

Is that making sense?

Be cool. Be strong. Be confident. Be irresistible.

No more pursuing!

Can't wait to hear about MC!