Hi Cindy,

Whats up with you lately girl??..something in the water?? ..Why can't you simply go with the flow, TRUST him..and STOP being so suspicious??...You are coming off as being NEEDY and you CANNOT let him sense that or you'll be back to square 1. You have to give him space and not EXPECT him to throw love at you right away, it's just not gonna happen with this guy..
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Where did he go? Out to lunch with some girl? I keep replaying in his mind his statement that being married would not stop him from dating. I wonder if that is still an option?

Hopefully not Cindy, but you improve your chances by not appearing worried or clingy and of course by NOT PRESSURING him..Instead, you do what the WINNING Cindy would do, and thats make yourself a more attractive option..which of course as we've discussed time and time again..ACT HAPPY, BE FUN, BE MYSTERIOUS, BE A CHALLENGE, BE SEXY, BE AGREEABLE..all the things us guys prefer in a woman if we're going to PURSUE them....
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I think tonight I will ask if we can get together to talk about our LL

Off the record, that is BIG TIME PRESSURE...I understand your need to feel like he's gung ho into the M again, but you have to look at the nature of your H..My guess is that is a conversation he does not care to have right now, he'd rather do things at his own PACE..The last time you talked R..you had to force him to say ILY..Now think about it, if he isn't ready to say those words to you..he sure as HADES isn't going to be totally comfortable conversing on the 5 LLs..

Why don't you talk about things you have in common or that YOU know he is interested in, in an attempt to CONNECT without talking about the L word? If I were him, I'd be much more open to that..

Bring him the SI Swimsuit issue not the 5 LL's.. ..then you might get somewhere...

Remember, DRAW him back..I'm sure you know what he likes...