Claire, I was wondering... Did you ever go no contact with your H? Or have you always done the light and friendly 180 DB thing? I'm not suggesting it. But as you know the buddy thing is a hot button for me too and I was wondering if your H ever really felt he could lose you.

On my phone, but basically I'm just thinking out loud here.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.