Calm down.

"Adinva my WAW herself at times would even make fun of this aunt."

So what? It doesn't mean that she can't feel sad for losing her. advina is right. Death is different to different people. You aren't your W so anything you say concerning the death is mindreading.

"So please stop insinuating that I am "deciding how she feels." I am basing my remarks on 18 years with WAW and I KNOW how she feels about this aunt. "

You are deciding how she feels. To put it mildly, before the bomb drop you would have sworn that your W would never D you. Yet here you are.

Your W is a different person now. It's time you understand that it applies to everything you thought you knew about her.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER