Hi Cindy,

Not sure why he wouldn't want to spend 1.5 hours with the kids, thats a good question.. ..Well at least he IS planning vacations with them so...

All you can do is just keep watching his actions and take notes..On the one hand, he's not filing, taking care of bills and tax refunds, scheduling vacations..on the other hand..he can't spend a little time with the kids and you have to drag "ILY" out of him..Guess you take the good with the not so good, and at the end of the day, you decide what it is you want out of a life long mate...In the end you'll accept him for who he is, or you decide you deserve better for yourself..the choice is always YOURS..

In the meantime of course...you just ACT HAPPY just as things are...