Feels like an eternity (Mindsin - part. 3)

[25yearsmlc]

I sent an e-mail to my W this morning thanking her for being so accommodating to me (Sunday). I continued and said that she has always been a good wife to me in that regard, and has always been accommodating to my needs (which isn't exactly true, but she believes it is).


Why are you pursuing her like this? It's obvious that you are pressuring her for more R talk. IT's not crucial information about the kids or finances.... You don't even believe what you are saying so how on earth are you helping things?


I then went on to say that I should have communicated with her better but didn't because I was avoiding potential conflict scenarios, and I assumed (mind-read) what her responses would be. I said I recognized that this was not her fault and was very unfair to her.

but you still mind read and it's still unfair.

Are you going to stop it, or just talk more about how you "recognize it"?


Awaiting her response...

BINGO!...You are blatantly "awiating her response"

That is NOT what you should be doing with your time!

And what is there for her to respond to? It's MORE about you discussing your changes...(as opposed to making the changes)

Detach....