MY TRAGIC WAW STORY PART V

[ItHurts]

Adinva my WAW herself at times would even make fun of this aunt. So please stop insinuating that I am "deciding how she feels." I am basing my remarks on 18 years with WAW and I KNOW how she feels about this aunt. I was not emotionally abusive to my WAW and even she would tell you that. So please stop. I do not remark unless I know what I am talking about. This aunt was not close to my WAW, so for me to say that she isn't losing sleep over it is not a stretch nor is it me belittling anything she feels. I guarantee you WAW is thinking more about her Florida move than the death of her aunt as I write this. So please stop trying to find fault in everything I do and say. I did spend 18 years with this woman so I feel I am very qualified to speak on what she may be feeling now...and I am pretty certain I am right. I'm sorry your husband emotionally abused you but I did not do that to my WAW...and even she would be quick to correct you on that. So saying you got "the same" from your husband insinuates I was emotionally inconsiderate of my WAW...which I wasn't. Fact is this aunt's passing is not something WAW is crying about right now I assure you. You make it sound like she's in such sorrow right now and I am being an evil person by thinking she used it as an opportunistic reason to contact me...WAW has been making excuses to contact me since the day she moved out and we know its because she wants to secure me as Plan B. Really, you make me out to be a heartless jerk. I am trying to DB here, nothing more...and I was advised to cut contact with her. That's the only reason I was initially not going to respond...because in know WAW isn't going to be all broken up over this death anymore than any of us dislikes hearing of another human death.