How to Fling an Otter Across Two States

[LoisB]

I didn't get the salary increase, BUT, they promised to review my salary in 6 months. The editor said this is good news because it means I may move up the ladder a little more quickly than the norm. I will take it and hold them to it.

I found two other houses that are a little lower in price.

I think I will meet with the atty again...spell out the temp support I can expect...ask about the other properties...and, maybe plan one more trip with just me to see the others OR sign the lease on the one we love. I will check in with the realtor tomorrow to see where things stand.

I told D20 about the $400 per month contribution if we choose the one house. She panicked. Had a bit of a blow up. I think she realizes that this house would mean she would be a bit "trapped" for the period of the lease. We shall see. Interesting to watch her...she, then, threw out her idea of going back to school in the spring semester...BUT, she would attend a community college nearby? AND continue to pay the $400 per month? HuH??? She could go to SUNY in Potsdam with instate tuition...it started to blow...and, I stopped the conversation.

She is scared. I'd be willing to alter the monthly "rent" but I already decided I won't go any lower than $300 per month. I think this is fair. Maybe I will compromise at $350.