2nd time around part 3

[NotAgainPlease]

Last week we had to go over our divorce paper. After her left he sent a text. Thanking me for getting together and doing that I know its not an easy thing. I still want to help you do things that needs to be done around the house.

I sent back you're welcome and I appreciate the offer but I don't think your GF will be happy about it. He said she doesn't have a say and none of her business....

When we were driving to the game this weekend it was brought up. He said she'll have to deal with it I'm doing it for mg kids. I said yes, but its really for me. Its my house and the kids don't care if something need to be fixed or whatever. He said you're right. I left it at that.....
We talk almost everyday. He has always been a clinger even when he hates me and wants me dead! The next day he'll say he doesn't want to fight and talk about kids.

Should I keep the communication going after a year of this? We are getting along nicely. But I'm think I should pull back and not communicate while I'm on top? Meaning getting along instead of fighting?
I know the divorce is looking enevitable and don't have much hope of reconciliation but a piece of me still hangs on.
Nothing in our lives have changed in last year. He is supposed to get a fulltime job next month and will have regular hours. That may make him happy.
Funny D14 isn't feeling well and he just texted me to see how she was feeling instead of asking her.....