"I resent being asked to do things that I think a husband should do, but I wouldn't do for just anyone."
Like what?
"My only disagreement with your analysis is that she often acts as if she is still my wife (makes dinners that I like, asks me how my day was, etc.)"
In what way are those "wife" related? So she makes dinner for you and your kids. So what? So she asks you how your day was. So what? She doesn't have FEELINGS for you any more. Or at least in that way.
You should actually be counting your blessings that you don't have one of the WAS's that go on a full slash and burn and makes you the enemy and goes out of her way to destroy you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.