still holding on - 4

[Shakspr]

I think a separation (just living separately) as opposed to a legal separation may be effective for both of us (unless we see that there is too much conflict).

I agree that it may be effective, but why would/could there be more conflict? If anything, it would juxtapose the two lifestyles quite well. And point out how hard co-parenting and child exchange (even with older children) REALLY is!