Ok as a sign of faith I put all the tax return stuff in h's hands. Told him that separately I could get lots of money to pay off separation induced bills (ie, attorney) but that I would leave it up to him to decide what was best for US.
Well surprise...he agreed to pay so that I could recoup the greatest amount of money.
At one point I let it slip that I felt he was trying to get the biggest amount so that he could split it and get a bigger half. He said no I'm looking to get the biggest refund for US!! And that he and I could sit down and get a list of bills to pay off with the refund!!!
Gosh, just when I thought he wasn't going to do something for US this week!! It's nice to know he has an us in mind though in relation to the tax refund I guess that is the best way to go. He did say that he worked out all kinds of scenarios, at least 9, that I could look at to see if it was the best way to go.
I'm just really glad he's willing to pay bills I've incurred while we've been separated....I think that's promising!
