Cindy..

I totally agree with Wiley on this one....but HEY-you caught yourself, you knew not to go there. At some point, way down the road....when you can start healing over the A, etc....then perhaps with his initiation, gently talk about fidelity, past wounds, etc. Give that a lot of time. Read other sitch's regarding that stuff...check in with Hoping or others. Don't let those worries get the best of you now....you are just beginning to reconnect and work together. (Sure thoughts are gonna sneak in that make you crazy, negative, angry, etc....let them go, give them to God and tred lightly for now.) Baby steps back to a M that has been struggling.

Hope to be in your shoes one day....even tho it seems very difficult at times.

Take care, Cin

Mooka