On the brink, need a miracle

[Onguard]

Thanks guys. My D13 only knows that we are having serious problems and we may need to live apart for a while. Even though I want to save my M, a big part of me is ashamed that I feel this way. My waw has not only been unfaithful but she has done it in our own home on 2 occassions. She has shown almost zero remorse and currently has no desire to R. Yet I am still hoping to save my M.

My ego has really taken a beating. If there is any hope for our M then I need to set my pride on the shelf and focus on what needs to be done now. I need to reconnect with her emotionally. I need to follow the 180. No pressure, no talks of R, show her the best I can be. Train had some very good advice to Shodan the other day about that. It is about keeping my eye on the prize and not showing my anger or insecurities.