New here, my fairytale gone wrong

[2BHappy]

That is a hard situation. You have 3 small kids, and need money from H. AND trying to detach and LRT.
You may have to at least send a text or email, and the wording will need to be direct but open and light....
IF you have bills that are due now, send an email with the date due and amount, and say something like "when do you think we can get these paid" Maybe ask him if he can set up a date and amounts he can deposit in the bank,,so you dont have to ask each month...

Or enter here what you are thinking to send and let the vets here help you wordsmith it.

I know it has to hurt, but stay as strong as you can. If you pray, pray often and sit quietly.