Feels like an eternity (Mindsin - part. 3)

[mindsin]

Zero interest.

Then why in the heck are you in ANY contact with her? I mean, having an interest in her would be worse, I GUESS but the thing is, you must be testing your wife or trying to annoy her or help your fragile ego.

I don't get why you'd be in touch with ANY woman at this moment in your m!
No excuse for it.

What are you trying to prove? Your neediness? Have you NO friends to talk with? You know, MALE friends or female relatives?

Geez....this is ANOTHER example of something she'd never be "allowed" to do without you having a tantrum.

But you do it and expect her to have no response OR you want her to be jealous.??..and you seem to be hurt/pouting that she's not jealous. Hey buddy, you wore out the whole "jealousy" thing with your wife years ago. If she were the jealous type & didn't adapt to your reality (e.g., the escorts) - she'd have gone off the deep end long ago.

Sheesh....

25 - that was my previous thread you replied to, so I'll quote your response and answer it here.

First, I no longer have any contact with that woman. That stopped last week. Since then, my wife has asked me on two occasions whether I'm still talking to her.

Next, I think you're way off base with regard to my thoughts and feelings regarding this woman I was speaking to. I wasn't trying to prove anything, and no, I don't have that many friends that I can talk about my situation to (in fact, only two friends, and they give me advice which is in contrast to DB).

I don't know what you mean by "this is another example of something she'd never be allowed to do w/out me having a tantrum". You totally lost me there.

And jealousy plays no part in any of this.

My contact with that woman (actually she contacted me 1st) was 100% platonic and it was simply somebody to talk to who had gone through a similar event in life. It would have been no different had she been a man.