One thing I had to do way to make sure my mail was not forwarded to her new place when she submitted her change of address. I called the post office and they straightened it out.
My wife's love language is acts of service. While I was still being tender and helpful before she moved, I brought her moving boxes. It was hard, but I wanted to show her I cared for her and would still be helpful. Not sure you want to do that however. I did not help them pack or move initially. Later I helped moved some beds and washer/dryer in.
Me:40 W:39 M:Dec 95 Split: Jul 14 W Filed: 9/16/14 Several Children (including adopted)