Mindsink - Part 2

[25yearsmlc]

Wonka, I was being a little cheeky with that.

That^^ is Not what I'd call it. You were painting her horribly, but that's NOT how she said it at all. Why not say, word for word what she said and not put any spin on it?.

Also, the mind reading and projecting is tiresome for me. I keep having to remind myself about how you assume the worst of her based mostly on your own past behavior, which is SO unfair. You assume she's doing what you did to her, scheduling the trysts and all.

As Dragnet man said, "just the facts please".


The truth of the matter is, she approaches me somewhat cautiously whenever she tells me of her plans to spend time with the OM, and she never actually mentions him.

so the "fact" that she's with OM is actually IN FACT, just your assumption? Oh Good grief...she 'never actually mentions him"....! How can you keep this game of victimhood up so well??


For example, she recently said "I'll be spending the day in the city and will be staying overnight because it will be very late by the time I come home".

I know it's obvious who she's spending the day with.

I don't. Just Stop it. If you cannot see what YOU are doing here, I can. At worst, she's having an A-- but she is NOT throwing it in your face which you have made her out to be doing. I ASSUME you do this to make you look like a victim and her the worst of all cheaters...but I really don't know.

To me, She seems to be TRYING to get along with you.

She's giving you the truth about where she's going - and showing you her calendar to prove it, so you can check it (not that you should) and that is why SHE is being transparent with you!