New here, my fairytale gone wrong

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Having a rough day today. I have not heard from H at all in 3 days. I realize I should be ok with this as I really need to do the LRT and not pursue but it still hurts. We have 3 kids and he is supposed to be supporting me financially so it seems like we must have some sort of frequent contact. I haven't contacted him at all either, which is definitely a 180 for me. Thoughts of our marriage failing forever fill my heads today and make me cry.

How do you do the no contact thing when kids and finances are involved? Just wait for him to contact me (and bring up nothing about our R) and deal with what he is or isn't doing financially on my own from this end? Obviously contacting H and saying "are you gonna put that $ in the bank" will be taken as criticism but then again, I have to pay the bills.

Thanks all. I appreciate the support.