Advice with WAW

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Probably more for her sake than mine, but I still need to go through that process, at least I think I do.

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Sorry I missed your post, I like your ideas but I have already done them for the most part lol. I don't drink coffee anymore (stomach issue), I ride my bike to work and back every day and do longer rides on the weekends. I try very hard to not be alone in the house except for maybe a hour of chill time before bed. I have been reconnecting with friends that I haven't spoken to in years, even have a phone call tonight with what used to be my best friend from my hometown. I try and hang out with people who have had the same decision crammed down their throat. Thank goodness Football (American) is back on which is something I love watching and eases the weekends a little bit.

I also started picking back up old hobbies that I let go by the wayside, eating much better, drinking less (not that it was a problem before). Focusing on the house is something I have been doing as well since I am keeping it. I don't have any kids (thank God) so luckily that isn't an issue. I have been seeing a IC, I only have 3 more visits then I will have to find a way to pay for that out of my pocket (which means I probably won't continue).

The only thing from your post that I am still not ready for is religion. I am spiritual, but certainly NOT religious. I do pray at night, oddly enough more for the W than for myself.

I have the attorney lined up and all the ducks are in a row, I certainly will not be filing first and will make her do that. I won't stand in her way regarding it but I am certainly not going to help her kill this thing.

I will definitely check out those articles you recommended.

Thanks