Shodan our sitch are very similar. My boys are very active so we spend most of our evenings running to sporting events. 1 in football the other soccer so we naturally go different ways. Later in the evening I have resigned to sitting outside on the porch and enjoying a cold 1 or 2. If she is watching tv or doing other things I will work on laundry or straighten things up. Weekends are actually a little tougher but we have sort of set up a schedule where we each go out one night a weekend and we have a built in baby sitter. Detaching is VERY hard to do when W is still at home. I have to pause every time she speaks so that I can remember to not let it effect me emotionally. I have only been at it for 6 weeks but I can tell you it will get easier. FYI she moved to a seperate bedroom and that really helped.
M42 W40 T17 M15 S13 S11 BD 7-14 A discovered 7-14 WAW moved out 10-3-14 D final 2-23-15
