Starsky, when you took the boys out on the weekends, did you just schedule it and not invite her, or tell her that she could come along? I know I have asked this before, but I just want to be extra careful. I do not want to spend my weekends "battling" with my W to see who can be the better parent.


Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed