I'm still thinking perhaps I can walk a fine line here and say I still want to separate, that I will not work on our marriage, but after 15 years of marriage I can give her a little time to find her center and get in a good place . . .
"Blccccch." "Find her center" ???
If you told her you needed to separate yourself if her affair continued, then you need to back it up. Have you asked her to leave?
"Find her center" ??? 
