Need Help before I blow a fuse.

[20&lost]

My Goals are: (Istart the 180 last Thursday 9/4/14)
1. She will tell me about her day.
2. She will text or call me for no reason
3.She will attempt some type of touching.
4. She will want to be in the same room as me
5. She will start doing things around the house
6. She will start making the bed
7. She will use the words “baby” or “honey”
8. She will answer or talk to me in more than one word sentences
9. She will compliment me
10. She will laugh around me and show happiness
11. She will say “Thank You” when I do things for her
12. She will be curious about my day or ask how my day has gone
13. She will initiate a conversation
14. I will work on my fitness
15. I will not be around the house so much looking like I am waiting on her
16. I will give her space
17. I will not go out to smoking area while she is there and if 18. she comes out I will go back inside
19. I will not ask stupid questions
20. I will not initiate conversation unless it is needed
21. I will GAL
22. I will sign up for Scuba lessons
23. I will define my boundaries to her in a loving way
24. I will be happy and loving around the house
25. I will quit doing things just to try and please her

My GAL's are
1. Get the yard looking better (She has always complained)
2. Get to a Gym. I have started CrossFit
3. Get my Open Water Scuba Certification. Both of my kids are certified and love scuba diving. I asked her if she wated to but she said she didn't have time. I will have this complete by next Tuesday.
3. Re bond with my friends who I have had very little contact for the last 9 months.