Haha, so I was thinking of something interesting and funny at the same time. My kids' first soccer game/practice is on the 16th. The 16th is also the day our divorce petition expires (assuming I do not get served in the next week). The 16th is also the 1 year anniversary of BD.

We will have at least 2 in person interactions before the 16th, but I was halfway thinking of asking her to go get drinks after soccer. I obviously would not do that now, I would wait to judge her mood/attitude and what not. I also thought a funny anniversary card would be, well, funny.

Not saying I will do either, it was just a fun thought. The drinks after the game would prob be the only thing I would do...depending on how things looked between us. I will have the kids that week, and I am sure my dad will be coming up to watch, so he would be able to take the kids afterwards, leaving us time together.

On the other hand, my personality is right up there with doing things like an anniversary card for a thing like BD. But then again, is it more of the same...making jokes over something serious? Hmm...

I have another DB coaching session that afternoon, so I can run that by her..

Last edited by pilot; 09/09/14 06:32 PM.

Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16