It sounds like your h wants you to speak up, however if it isn't the answer he's looking for, he then states that work. I understand you want to R, however, I also believe stating what you propose or giving 2 options might help. If your h says," I don't like those" then you can certainly ask what he proposes. If you don't like or think it's feasible, there is no harm in saying "I don't think that will work."
I think people get caught up in how they appear to the other, if they don't agree. He asked for your suggestion. You gave it. He gave options and there is nothing wrong with saying that you don't think x will work.
It's a pain in the booty. I get it. You don't have to let the other "get their way" to reattach them. You will figure it all out:-)
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3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
