Also, You will need to get renters' insurance on your belongings when you move. Have you looked into what your time limit is on changing the tags over on your vehicle from Ohio to NY? That might mean an inspection and higher vehicle insurance. You have to think about those things too.
I'm trying to think of all of the things I had to do when moving from one state to another many years ago.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.