Wife having emotional affair part 2

[3kids]

Mrbond is spot on. There is nothing that you can do. Except express your concern. And you have to do that as though you are concern for the kids. In my sich it's a little different. We are separated, OM is not from home town. I have to let OM blow up there thing that they have going on.

One thing I have going for me is that she has some red flags about OM already. When he is in town I do not get a phone calls. Except this last time. Which is different. Last night she called the kids. Which is different, she just dropped them off on Sunday night. I have been really trying to help her out with the kids and school. In the first 4 to 5 months I went NC hard core. Didn't involve her in anything with the kids life or school. Now I am involving her in some things. She has been more open to me and willing to talk to me and see my changes. Last night after she was done talking with the kids she wanted to talk to me(baby step). I asked how school was because I was in a good mood because of an hour long tickle session with the kids. She was nice at the beginning but turned short after I kind of didn't offer her to come with me and the kids to the game. So I said my good byes and hung up. Today I offered for her to come with. No reply yet because she is at school but we will see.

Right now I have the kids an extra 2 days a week. Given her no reason at all to hate me and being kind and friendly. Which I think is starting to get to her not being able to be mad at me. Kill them with kindness and unconditional love. Maybe and just maybe that is why she hasn't pushed the divorce.

Patience and patience
Finding GAL hard when I have the kids so much and working so much. Only get two nights off a week and that's during the week. I'll figure it out.