Onguard I would agree with the lawyer . Do not leave your home and try to get custody of your D13 . What your wife has done is despicable . Bringing in a man to your home to have sex ? If she wants to separate let her go . D13 is the issue for you here for sure , but she is still her mother . However what does D13 know about your sitch ??
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )