So OW's mom died and J called to get my opinion on him taking the kids out of school to attend the funeral. I think it's unnecessary, J thinks it's a good "learning experience" which is bull...he is just saving face because OW wants them there. He is taking the kids out at 2:00 pm tomorrow and all day on Thursday. I told him I did not want them missing more than one day of school. Any more than that is ridiculous.
I read OW's mom's obit online and wasn't shocked to read that J and OW are engaged, but highly annoyed to read OW listed my kids as her mom's grandchildren. I know OW wrote this obit for her mom because it is sentimental and emotional and because J told me her dad is not doing well with all this. I doubt if J has seen this but he wouldn't say anything about it anyway. But I am p*ssed she mentioned my kids. But I am trying to remain calm and remember it doesn't really mean anything to anyone but OW. I know the truth and that is what is important. My friend said OW is probably thinking I will read this obit and put that in there to get a reaction.
I thought about telling J that I think it's inappropriate, but he will just defend OW and possibly do more stuff to annoy me if he knows it gets a reaction. It doesn't hurt anyone and it doesn't mean anything. It is just highly inappropriate.
I am giving this to God and hoping a swift dose of karma is served up piping hot.
WH
Last edited by wishing, hoping; 09/09/1405:10 PM.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
