Hi Rev, I'm brand new here too, so I'm sorry to say I can't offer much in the way of advice, but I can tell you there's lots of support here from many many people who have gone through the same thing. I would wholeheartedly suggest reading the DB/DR books in addition to this website and also reading through the old threads- so much wisdom and inspiration there that has helped me.
Remember DBing is about making changes that make you a better person and that (hopefully) will lead to your W seeing what a fantastic husband you really are, but be prepared for the changes to take time and have as much patience as you possibly can- I jumped the gun saying I wanted a separation before I really did and I'm regretting that now.
Me: 45 W:43 M: 15, T:21 2 Kids- S-14, D-12 A Started: 10/2013 Discovered as EA: 6/2014, as PA: 7/2014 A changing, not ending Start DB'ing 9/2014 Same house, same bed
