Wife having emotional affair part 2

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Told you I was horrible with boundaries! Thank you again for calling me out on this Mr. Bond. I cannot wrap my head around the concept.

In my sitch, the only leverage I have is that she is still at home, and she wants to cooperate on the dissolution. I leveraged both, risking a nasty D and somehow trying to "throw her out". Looking back it was a HUGE risk, but it was worth it.