After almost 5 years of weekly IC, I'm going to biweekly. This is huge because of the difference in who I was when I walked in to her office the first time and who I am now. She has definitely kept me moving forward without pushing. I've shed a lot of layers in that office and she's seen and heard both the best of me and the worst of me.
Things are moving along on the marriage front. We are two distinct individuals working to create a R that is interdependent while maintaining our separate identities. It's work but for today, it's worth it.
S25 is off to graduate school while living in Canada with his GF. He's happy, in love and loved, and chipping away at his goals.
S21 is working hard and overcoming some of his issues. It's more progress than I've seen in a long, long time. Maybe we finally have the right therapeutic team in place. It seems that way for today. If it crumbles, we can always change it.
We'll continue to do what works.
I'm also allowing some new work ideas to percolate in my head. We'll see what comes of that.
Great day to you all.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
This is huge because of the difference in who I was when I walked in to her office the first time and who I am now. She has definitely kept me moving forward without pushing. I've shed a lot of layers in that office and she's seen and heard both the best of me and the worst of me.
