About the amount of drinking, I want to say this because I think many people avoid getting support for themselves by thinking "X doesn't drink THAT much." "X isn't an alcoholic."
The defining factor, is the drinking a problem for YOU? Does it affect your R with that person? Does it make you uncomfortable?
Do you need support?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
