Originally Posted By: T0324
I did re read DR.


What are your thoughts, do you view any parts differently? Or did you absorb/identify with some things differently?

Originally Posted By: T0324
I don't have DB and really didn't like DB as much as DR when I read it.


I felt the same way. However, I still put effort into reading it a couple of times.

Also, IMhO... It felt like DB actually addresses reconciliation better.

Originally Posted By: T0324
No I don't feel pressured I would love for H to be home I just don't want to make a mistake and fall into the same bad habits


How are you communicating that to H and the MC? Remember though this, your H did not yet learn to mind read wink


Me: 43
M: 10y
S:15
ILYBINILWY 2/18/13
W moved out 2/18/13
Filed for D: 2/17/13
Got DB: 2/20/13
Got DR: 2/23/13
180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13
D Final Dec '13