Am I on the right track?

[wmwb123]

Thanks, Tarheel. The only problem is that she's living with the AP in another city. We never see each other. How is she going to see the "new me" at the divorce proceedings? She shut down her FB account the day I exposed the affair, presumably because she's hiding from anyone who would disapprove of what she's doing. So there's no way that she will even hear about what I'm doing.

I've read of affairs ending during divorce proceedings and then the WH waking up to reality. I hope that WW's do the same. The one story I read was almost exactly six months to the day of the beginning of the affair. I know that statistics mean nothing, but 65% ending within six months is pretty good odds. Then there's the thing about love chemicals peaking at six months and then tapering off from there.

I just really want to see if my WW will wake up once that time period has passed. If not, then so be it. I believe God hates divorce (as he says in Malachi), but I know I have no control over my WW's thoughts and actions. She will have to repent, because I can't do it for her. I care deeply about her and want her to repent and return to God.